13 SIDE EFFECTS OF IGNORING A MAN IN A RELATIONSHIP BASED ON YOUR ZODIAC SIGN
Are you in a relationship with an Aries who doesn’t respect you enough no matter what you do?
Now you’re probably wondering whether or not ignoring an Aries man could help make him realize your worth and stop taking you for granted?
I really can’t give you a clear answer to that question, and I think no one actually can. It can be very effective sometimes, but it may also have negative consequences.
Maintaining a relationship with an Aries man can be a pretty difficult job.
Trust me, I know. I’ve been in your place, and I tried very hard to keep the stubborn Aries guy I loved in my life.
Fortunately, I managed to do it, and I also used the same technique you want to use now (ignoring him to make him go absolutely crazy for you).
Aries are one of three zodiac signs who like a challenge the most, and if you make winning your heart a challenge for them, they’ll totally fall for it.
The thing I like most about this sun sign is their honesty. No matter how painful something may be for you, Aries will be direct and honest about it because it’s just how they are.
They’re also determined and confident. They know what they want and won’t stop until they get it.
These very passionate men are always willing to step out of their comfort zone and try something new in bed.
Finding a way to turn on an Aries man in bed is super easy because they’ll accept anything you offer them.
This first sign of the zodiac also has a few negative personality traits. My top three are the ones that piss me off the most: their arrogance, impatience, and stubbornness.
These traits will make things particularly difficult for you.
They’re also very competitive, so they’ll probably see what you’re trying to do and respond in the same way to your mind game. It’s their specialty.
They’re also a fire sign, and this really can be seen in their temper.
If you do something wrong, they’ll immediately burn with anger and yell at you without even thinking about the consequences of their behavior.
What happens when you ignore an Aries man?
I’ve already said that I couldn’t guarantee that ignoring an Aries man will help you, but it’s definitely worth a try.
However, you must be prepared for some of the consequences below.
At the beginning…
When you start avoiding your Aries man, he’ll play it cool at first because he’ll want to show you that he knows what you are trying to do, and he won’t let you see that your ignoring is hurting him.
1. He’ll most likely ignore you back
The only way an Aries will respond to you ignoring them, is by ignoring you back.
He won’t even take the time to think about why you even started avoiding him in the first place.
He’ll see it only as a mind game you’re trying to play with him, and he’ll take part in that game.
After all, he’s Aries, and we all know that Aries specializes in playing mind games.
It’ll be challenging to beat him at this game. He’s stubborn, and he won’t easily surrender, nor will he accept defeat.
You must be very persistent and, no matter what, don’t give up.
I know ignoring someone you love is the most difficult thing to do, but unfortunately, it’s the only way to make your Aries man respect you more.
This will take time, and you’ll need lots of patience. This goes especially for Libras and Sagittariuses, who are known as the most impatient zodiac signs.
However, you’ll see that after some time, he’ll understand why you are doing this and come begging on his knees for you to give him another chance.
Of course, this only applies if he truly loves you.
2. He might break up with you
If he sees that he can’t beat you at your game, he’ll probably break up with you. Don’t worry. It probably won’t be definite.
He’ll only do this because he thinks it’s how he’ll get you to stop ignoring him.
He’ll assume that the breakup will scare you and that you’ll stop playing the game to save your relationship.
Of course, if he doesn’t feel anything for you, he’ll leave you without even thinking about it.
Actually, he was probably looking for a reason to do it anyway, and now you’ve given him a pretty good one. This way, he’ll make it look like you’re guilty of the breakup.
It’s a fact that Aries like a good chase; however, it’s only if they really like someone. They won’t chase every woman they meet.
Yes, I agree that they’re the ‘bad boys’ who only want to have fun in life, but they aren’t womanizers.
They can fall in love and not run from it. However, it’s difficult for them to maintain a relationship with someone because of their flirtatious nature.
3. It’ll help him move on faster
Even if you’re avoiding him just to give him space to think about you and your relationship, your man will probably interpret it differently.
He’ll think of it as you trying to pull away and ending things with him.
His stubbornness will make him completely blind, and he won’t realize the real reason you decided to ignore him.
He won’t allow you to see him suffer.
He’ll try to spend this time doing his own things, watch some trending news, hang out with his buddies, or something else that might keep his mind distracted.
4. He might also see other women
The first time your Aries man starts thinking that something is off with you because you’re avoiding him, he’ll see it as you giving him the green light to see other women.
As the famous relationship astrologer Anna Kovach says: “He needs attention and affection from his lady love.
If he doesn’t get it from you, he’ll seek it elsewhere, which can either mean cheating or it can result in him calling things off with you.”
This won’t be easy for you to handle, and it’s probably the only side effect that might make you stop avoiding him.
However, in my opinion, that would be a huge mistake.
Even if he goes out with another woman, he won’t cross the line with her because when an Aries man is in love, he stays loyal no matter what.
It’s truly one of his greatest personality traits.
He’ll probably do it just to make you jealous and get you to reach out.
You must know that it’s only another one of his mind games, and you must stay tough and not let it bother you.
5. He’ll think that you don’t care about him anymore
Ignoring an Aries man might make him believe that your feelings for him have changed, just as it probably would make a Cancer man, Pisces, or any other man.
To be honest, it’s the only conclusion we all have when someone is ignoring and avoiding us.
The good thing is that it won’t make him give up on your relationship completely or change his feelings for you.
After all, even if that’s something we all want the most, we can’t command our hearts.
This is when your Aries man will start thinking about reaching out to you and asking you to talk about your relationship.
He’ll want to hear from you that you don’t love him anymore. From this point, your ignoring will really start bothering him.
6. Ignoring him will damage your connection
You must be aware that if you ignore him for too long, it’ll harm your relationship. You’ll become distant from each other.
His stubbornness won’t allow him to reach out to you nor to try to fix this situation.
Your relationship will suffer for sure, but the fact is that it wasn’t good before, because if it were, you wouldn’t be ignoring him right now.
I think it’s pretty logical that there are two possible outcomes here; ignoring an Aries man can damage your connection and end your relationship for good, or it could make him understand that he wasn’t treating you the way you deserve and make your relationship a whole lot better.
After a while…
You’ll see how he’ll change after some time when he sees that you’re serious and that you don’t plan to stop ignoring him.
He’ll come down off his high horse and admit that he must appreciate you and treat you better.
7. It’ll make him angry
He’ll start feeling a whole range of emotions, and the first one will be anger.
At first, he’ll try to focus on his own life and do things that he thinks can distract him from thinking about you, but when he realizes it’s impossible, he’ll be angry.
Surprisingly, he’ll mostly be angry at himself because he’ll understand that you’re winning at this mind game.
He can’t accept that your relationship is falling apart, but he also doesn’t want to look weak and reach out first.
8. His feelings will be hurt
I think that most people don’t quite understand Aries and have a complete misconception about them.
They’re seen as womanizers, bad boys who are unable to fall in love.
No, that’s not true. It is difficult for them to fall for someone, but they fall very hard when they do.
Ignoring an Aries man who’s in love with you will make him suffer, but it’s the only way you can make him understand that he has to change to keep you in his life.
9. It’ll make him think about his mistakes
This is the whole point of ignoring an Aries man. To make him rethink his behavior toward you in your relationship.
After things cool off a little bit, he’ll understand that it’s his fault you’re behaving this way. He’ll become aware of all his mistakes.
He’ll realize that it isn’t enough just to love someone, but you also have to appreciate, respect, and validate your partner.
10. He’ll start missing you
After he becomes aware of his mistakes, he’ll start missing you. Just to warn you, he won’t reach out immediately because he’ll need to sort out his thoughts and feelings first.
Then, he’ll think about ways he can show you that he’s genuinely sorry for everything and how he’ll never disrespect or make you feel less worthy again.
After all, Aries (along with Scorpios) are ruled by the planet of action, Mars, and they know that words mean nothing if they aren’t backed up by action.
11. He’ll start chasing you
The only reason why he didn’t chase you until now is that he’s too damn proud.
But after a while, he’ll forget about his pride because he’ll realize that you’re more important than anything else.
He’ll try really hard to prove to you that he can be a good boyfriend. We all know how Aries are; he won’t stop until he manages to win you over again.
12. It’ll make him understand he should never take you for granted again
By ignoring an Aries, you’ll give him the time and space to acknowledge that he wasn’t treating you well while you were together.
If he genuinely loves you, of course, he won’t want to lose you, and he’ll change.
He’ll never again take you for granted and risk your relationship again because now he’s sure that he can’t live without you.
I’m telling you that this will be a difficult journey, but the results show that it’s worth it.
13. It will allow you to have control of your relationship for a change
He was probably the dominant partner in your relationship, and one of the reasons you started ignoring him is because you wanted to change that, right?
Well, this will make your Aries guy realize that a relationship should be based on equality.
Actually, now you’ll have a little bit more power and control over your relationship, lol, but let’s be honest, you need it when you’re dating an Aries.
Final words
As we all know, Aries are pretty energetic and adventurous. Those traits may make it harder for them to start and maintain a healthy relationship.
However, honesty is their main virtue, and that’s why when they meet their soulmate and commit to that person, they’ll stay loyal to them no matter what.
Fighting for your Aries guy will be a difficult journey, but it’s worth every step.
I can’t say for sure whether or not ignoring an Aries man is the best way to show him that he shouldn’t take you for granted, but it definitely has its advantages.
When it comes to their love compatibility, Aries are most compatible with Geminis, Leos, Sagittarius, and Aquarius.
They don’t get on well with Virgos, Capricorns, and especially with the Venus-ruled Tauruses.
They can fall in love with them, but it’ll be tough to maintain a relationship with any of these three zodiac signs.
Before you decide whether it’s good to ignore an Aries man or not, you should first go through these side effects.
If you can’t handle all of them, both the positive and negative ones, you shouldn’t go there then.
When you notice that your plan has begun to work, don’t expect him to immediately say that he misses you.
He’s stubborn, and he’ll need a little bit more time to take that step.
I wish you all the luck in the world because, after all, you’re dealing with an Aries, and you’ll definitely need it.
