The 2 Signs That Hate Each Other And Then Love Each Other Passionately

And when we talk about compatibility between Aries and Scorpio, the spark from the beginning cannot be denied, but serious mismatches can appear as their connection develops.

Aries-Scorpio dynamics: love and hate

Aries is a cardinal fire sign. Its ruling planet is Mars, which represents spontaneity and aggression, which gives Aries a bold outlook on life.

Scorpio, on the other hand, is a fixed water sign. Its ruling planet is Pluto (or Mars in ancient astrology) and is associated with the secretive and mysterious nature of this sign.

When you put all these factors together, you conclude that these two signs are not compatible. As an astrologer and holistic psychiatrist, Kayse Budd tells mindbodygreen, “Fire and water make steam, which means the two can create a passionate connection, but there’s also the chance of overheating.”

Aries may think that Scorpio is too intense, relentless, and controlling, while Scorpio thinks that Aries is too agitated, impulsive, and selfish. “If Aries hurts Scorpio’s feelings, he might not be able to understand what he did wrong, especially since Scorpio is not the best at expressing his feelings. He rather tends to hide them”, says the astrologer.

“Similarly,” adds Budd, “Aries can feel frustrated by Scorpio’s emotional needs and drama. For an Aries, Scorpio seems to overreact to everything and create problems out of nothing”.

The friendship between an Aries and a Scorpio

According to Budd, Aries, and Scorpio will probably do better as friends than as lovers, especially if they are united by a certain context, such as the fact that they work together. They challenge each other and will do great – they like each other’s company.

“They can also do interesting things together in a work or community project,” notes Budd, because Aries brings excitement, while Scorpio brings involvement.

Of course, Scorpio always has the desire to go deeper emotionally and intellectually, and Aries can have some difficulties there. As Budd explains, Aries may not feel comfortable delving into depth — “or simply won’t know how to handle such conversations in a way that engages Scorpio.” Therefore, says the astrologer, this pair works best when both are goal-oriented.

The love relationship between Aries and Scorpio

In the love department, Aries and Scorpio have one thing in common: sexual desire. According to the astrologer, both signs have an increased libido, although they will express this in different ways.

“Aries tends to be an active, very energetic, and passionate lover, while Scorpio needs depth, intimacy, and emotion, looking for subtle but passionate connections,” explains Budd. And this difference in expression can also appear in other areas of the relationship, such as the emotional connection.

This does not mean, however, that Scorpio cannot adapt to Aries’ style, but it is not known if it can sustain this energy continuously. Similarly, Aries can fulfill Scorpio’s emotional needs, because the two have similar values: total trust and loyalty. If they can do that, then they will support an incredibly passionate long-term relationship.