Update: What Every Zodiac Sign Needs To Hear Before Getting Married

Aries (March 21- April 19)

Though better said than done, patience, Aries, will do more wonders in your married life than you think. Your next stage isn’t about you anymore but your partner and yourself. Patience will lessen your moments of impulse and anger, which is something any marriage is better off without. Also, putting others before yourself isn’t a sign of weakness but a strength. Ultimately, this will strengthen your and your partner’s connection in the long run.

Taurus (April 20- May 20)

Don’t get stuck in a rut, Taurus. Keep dating your partner to keep that romance alive. Shower them with gifts on random days, buy them a bouquet just because, or take them out to dinner every other week or two. Don’t forget that both of you have needs, and you’re counting on each other to have them met. Sure, married life has a set of responsibilities to ensure success, but don’t discount your connection as a lesser priority.

Gemini (May 21- June 20)

The journey you’re about to take is more interesting than you think. Though you might feel like you’re about to be tied down, the truth is your freedom and identity are about to get an upgrade. The challenges you’ll face will mentally push your brain to think of a list of solutions. The mild discouragements you’ll feel will have your head and heart finally working together to ensure you stay on the right path.

Cancer (June 21- July 22)

Hold on to what makes you who you are, dear Cancer. Though this next step is practically in your wheelhouse, don’t forget to take care of yourself in the long run. There will be so much you have to do these next few years that I’m afraid you might lose sight of who you are because of it. So, I hope you never stop going to that yoga class, having brunch with your girlfriends, or even stepping away for five minutes from your day-to-day.

Leo (July 23- August 22)

Dear Leo, as you move on to the next stage in life, remember that it’s not always about you. We all know you’re a strong independent woman with a lot of love to give, but don’t let that love turn into a need for control. Learn to let go of your ego, ask for help, and let others take the lead for once.

Virgo (August 23- September 22)

There is no such thing as a perfect marriage. You can try to do everything, but there is no stopping life of its inevitabilities. Try and sharpen your listening skills as well—these next few years can be a lot for only one person to handle. So, try to soak in those ideas from the ones closest to you because most of the time, they mean well.

Libra (September 23- October 22)

Don’t forget your magic, dear Libra. Don’t forget the best parts of you and all the qualities that make you wonderful. Though marriage will feel like you’re floating on a cloud at first, it’s what comes crashing in after the honeymoon that you’ll need to keep an eye on. I don’t doubt they’ll be many things to prioritize, but never leave yourself out of that equation.

Scorpio (October 23- November 21)

There will be other people who will love your future spouse and kids as much as you do. There may be days where time spent with them may not equally be divided with you, and that’s okay. As much as no one can deny your love for your future family, don’t forget that it’s also healthy for them to spend quality time with their friends as much as they do with you.

Sagittarius (November 22- December 21)

Dear Sagittarius, marriage IS the ultimate adventure of them all. There’s no need to feel tied down because you should be excited about your next chapter. Try to bite your tongue whenever you can as well. Being blunt may not be as helpful in the long run when your future spouse and kids try to confide in you.

Capricorn (December 22- January 19)

There’s no doubt you love your work, but we know how much you love the one closest to you even more. As much as married life may require a lot of practical responsibilities, please don’t forget to make time for the one you hold dear. It’s crucial to spend quality time with your partner, as both of you don’t want to end up feeling alone.

Aquarius (January 20- February 18)

Learn to be more flexible, dear Aquarius. You’ll need it these next few years which require a lot of compromises. We know you’re rebellious and take pride in your thoughts and opinions, but sometimes—especially in marriage—you’ve got to learn how to bend and see it as a way of expanding yourself and not feeling deterred by it.

Pisces (February 19- March 20)

Find the beauty in the present, dear Pisces. Indeed, not every day is a good day, but there is always something good in every day. It may seem easier to want to escape when things get tough, but staying and withering the storm with the one you love makes any marriage stronger.